Dear Agony Uncle,

I would like to seek your kind advice on the below matter.

(Background of the case)
It starts from renting a hdb room and I am the owner.

At first, I and the tenant did not sign any tenancy agreement for the lease. But he had renting experience in Singapore and we agreeed verbally that each party needs to give a one month notice to end the tenancy.

However, the tenant told me that he will move out the next day. By right, his deposit should be forfeited by not giving 30 days advance notice (he gives only 0 days advance notice). After moving out, he then comes back to me to ask for refund of deposit.

The fact is that the tenant knows that the deposit should be forfeited. (1)We verbally agreed on that (2) He rented houses in Singapore before and for the same reason his deposit was forfeited.

Now the tenant keeps coming to my house and disturbe my family on a daily basis. He knocked the door rudely and even comes into my house without my family's permission. In addition, he treatens and insults my family members. He even use a garden pot to threaten beating my wife, who just gave birth and in the confinement month.

We called police one day but the police just asked him out. The tenant even threaten my wife in front of the police saying "you dare go out of the house?".

My question is: is there a way to stop him from coming to my house? and can I take any leagal actions against him?

Thanks a lot!!