前阵子在匿名版看到一个帖子，女生发的，说自己的几个异性友人回国了，微信朋友圈一下冷清了，没人陪自己逛街解闷，没人说赞美恭维的话了。老公又一向当自己是行走的家具，不大搭理自己，于是觉得很失落。
不解了，难道老公不应该是你最好的朋友吗？有了他还夫复何求？
难道是我这时髦奶奶（借用某网友的金句）理解不了新生代的价值观？
所以我的问题是：Should a married woman have close male friends?
Should she cultivate an opposite-sex friendship that excludes her husband or makes him feel displaced?
Should she pour time and energy into any male-female relationship outside her immediate family?
Should she be texting, flirting, or spending time alone in the company of a man other than her husband?
我只负责抛出议题，欢迎大家发表看法。最近版上好冷清，我来制造一点热度啊
---