There are 3 categaries of people:
Cat A: they have a good career, yet they have a balanced family life. They are tired, but they are OK.
Cat B: They are struggling between these two, however, they indeed can only cope with one well. If they never realize that, they will be losers eventually-they are NOT OK.
If they do, then they can give up their career dream(they either do not work or they still work but just treat it as a job)---then they are OK.
Or they give up their family, they concentrate on theri career-they are OK again .(ps. how can that be ok, give up family???)
of course there are Cat C; they can neither cope with family nor their job..nothing can be done to help them. They are complete losers.
which categary you belong to??