you took it too seriously
but i understand that :)
Had same experience before, in a guild I loved, some member says I was cheating in rolling an epic item. I was crazy that time and almost quit the guild. Then later I realized people see things from different view and sometimes it could be very ridiculous for me to think in certain way. So I just let it pass, no point to punish myself for others' fault or unfair judgement.
Have fun! And how come I never see you in Chuan Yuan? I went there quite often.