求助各位华新的宝爸宝妈们留学生可以怀孕休学回国生产么?

我跟女朋友都是拿student pass的本科生,还有一年的时间才能毕业,由于之前读的理工学院年纪也不小了。女朋友最近意外怀孕了,我们打算领了结婚证以后让女朋友休学一年回国生孩子。本来我们也是打算毕业了就结婚的,只是孩子来的太早了。但是不管如何这也是一条生命,抱着让孩子跟母亲都受到最小伤害的态度我们跟家人都希望可以让女友休学回国生产,把孩子抚养到可以交给父母暂时带的时候再回来接着完成学业,然后等我在这边工作稳定了大概孩子一岁到两岁的时候给她办DP过来带在身边抚养。父母很担心会影响到我们的学业,怕这种情况我们会被学校要求退学,所以迫不得已的情况下只能让女朋友去流产了。我知道这件事情很大的责任都在我们身上,但是现在计较事情的缘由已经没有任何意义了。作为一个男人我只想承担起这个责任,不要让女友跟家人受到伤害,如果孩子生下来的话我也一定会尽自己最大的能力去照顾他抚养他的。
在网上搜索了很久也没有找到类似的案例,希望可以通过华新的版友们提供点建议,这种情况女朋友可以顺利办休学而不被退学么?
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房菊振

谢谢回复
之前比较担心咨询学校,被学校知道这个情况后女友会被开除或者受到其他处理。在网上搜索了解到一些信息,新加坡留学生怀孕被发现了会被遣返回国。如果匿名跟学校发邮件的话应该没什么问题了吧?

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武谦

直接打电话问你们的admin office.
NUS有医生的信可以休学半年,也可以退学然后一年内申请继续念。

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窦枫

BTW学姐肯定是student pass
不觉得会是什么问题

身边同学各种有精神压力大 住院 挂科等原因不能按时毕业休息半年一年延长student pass的

希望楼主要做爸爸了 成熟一点不要这么抓瞎

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欧阳丹

国大的官方说法是这样的
Leave of Absence

Students may be granted leave for periods of absence from the University.

For undergraduates, such leave of absence is normally not counted against the maximum candidature of the programme pursued by the student concerned.

Leave of absence may be granted for the following reasons:

1. Medical Reasons

Students who are applying for medical leave of absence for one semester (term) or more must consult the University's Health Physician (University Health Centre) who will submit an assessment to the relevant Faculty on whether the student is indeed unfit to study for the semester(s).

Students who are on medical leave of absence for one semester (term) or more, must also be certified fit to resume studies by the University's Health Physician before s/he can start attending classes. If a student has been consulting a medical practitioner other than one from the University Health Centre during the period of leave, a medical report (in English) from that medical practitioner must be submitted to the University's Health Physician. Students will not be able to register for modules until they have been certified fit. Should they still be unwell, the medical leave of absence may be extended. Such applications for leave extension will be evaluated based on medical recommendations and the student's academic records. Normally, a student who is granted leave of absence on medical grounds during a semester will be given “IC” grades for all modules taken in that semester.

2. Academic Reason


3.Personal reasons

Leave may be granted for students to participate in activities such as competitions, sports, seminars, and community services, to start-up a company or to attend to personal matters (including maternity leave).


详见http://www.nus.edu.sg/registrar/adminpolicy/loa.html
各个学校都有自己的说明的,不会不准生孩子。

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蒋亚香

PhD可以,本科生未知
就算是可以休学一年,回来以后学校不会将maximum candidate period顺势后延,需要完成的课程,将会被认为延迟了一年尚未完成。建议是不要休学,继续学业,孩子在肚子里的日子,远轻松过孩子降生以后。为求留下生命,保全学业,其他适当降低要求,比如分数和营养保障。

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房菊振

谢谢回复
BTW,请问你学姐当时是读phd还是undergraduate?感觉postgraduate可能跟undergraduate的policy不大一样

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窦枫

本科
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贡彩娅

可以的,有认识的人是nus本科期间生的小孩

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